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For the spiritual entrepreneur who neither apologizes for being financially prosperous nor for including the spiritual dimension in her business.

At the heart of our blog is the heroine's inner journey to business success.

Each week, we post four segments focused on spiritual entrepreneurship:

  • MondayAbout Accidental Pren-hers. Be inspired by stories of women who suddenly became Accidental Entrepreneurs.
  • TuesdayWisdom from your Inner Samurai. Consider what others have to say about the importance of paying attention to your inner wisdom.
  • Wednesday Today . . . I am. Get practical advice, tips and information on how to be a successful small business owner.
  • ThursdaySpiritual entrepreneurship book reviews.

August 20, 2008

Is Twitter for the Birds?

Twitter_2 Today . . . I am reading a guest article on Jill Whalen's High Ranking Advisor. It's such a thorough article on Twitter that I thought I would post it, in it's entirety here.

I first blogged about Twitter in "I'm a Twitter, You're a Twitter, Wouldn't You Like to be a Twitter, Too?" in March and continue to be an avid fan.

Is Twitter for the Birds?
by Jim Spencer

I surely thought so after creating my Twitter account back in early 2007. As an entrepreneur, I find that time and resources need to be well targeted and purposeful. I could see no purpose as I stared at the blank screen. This was not a resource for me.

Today, I can confirm both customer and colleague relationships initiated through Twitter as well as many friendships and even money in the bank. Here is how that all changed, after a Twitter primer.

Twitterbird_3 What is Twitter?

Twitter falls into the category of social media applications. This communication tool allows you to keep in touch through short messages that can be sent to many people instantly.

You can update three ways: to all subscribers, directed to one person, or sent privately to one person. Updates are 140 characters maximum. (As a reference, the text immediately preceding this parenthetical note is 139 characters long.)

When you first open your account you are missing the most important component of a useful Twitter account – people whom you follow and people who follow you.

How do you find people to follow?

Below are six suggestions for finding people to follow, but first a little business-focused contemplation. Think about your purpose and motive. This will help you focus on following the right kind of people. Two important business questions are:

Do you want to follow people with similar interests, in the same industry? Or, do you prefer to develop a group of followers who will benefit from your products or services and possibly hire you?

Most people tend to reciprocate followers, so keep the Golden Rule in mind. Follow the kind of people whom you want to be followed by.

  • Follow a couple of people you know, such as the person who introduced you to Twitter. Follow me @fairminder.
  • Follow their friends. Observe conversations and then choose new followers from among the people others are talking with.
  • Upload your contact list to Twitter to find people on Twitter whom you already know. Follow #2 above again.
  • Visit TwitterPacks. It lists all kinds of Twitter folks according to special interest.
  • Search on Twitter for your city or town name along with the state, and review profiles to find new people to follow.
  • Visit this TweetScan. It's a more advanced twitter search site.

Number 2 above is a successful method because it includes some measure of social validation as you move from friend to friend of friend, rather than guessing whom to follow. You know the old saying, "Birds of a feather flock together"? It really does apply here.

What should you say?

Twitter is a microcosm of life and has the potential for an equally wide range of subjects to be shared.

Feel free to jump in and send an update to someone in response to an update that you read. Or simply answer the question that Twitter poses: "What are you doing now?" Keep it interesting and related to the purpose and motive you established earlier. What you read on Twitter may inspire you to start a new conversation.

Here is a small sampling of what you may find or contribute on Twitter:

  • Breaking news – News of the Chinese earthquakes hit Twitter long before traditional news outlets.
  • Interesting links to a photo, audio, video, website, blog, forum post and more.
  • Local meeting information – I enjoyed many meetings discovered on Twitter.
  • Messages of encouragement – Tragic personal news can generate condolences from around the globe.
  • Absolute rubbish – Not so interested that there are now three spiders on your wall.
  • Tech help – Many have received answers to tech questions right away.
  • Friendship – A listening ear, someone who will respond.
  • Weather updates – Timely, accurate reports from far and near.
  • Affinity groups – For example, fitness groups encouraging each other.
  • Sports scores – We love those Red Sox.
  • Reviews and recommendations – Comments on books, movies, products, etc.
  • Directions – You are likely to get a helpful reply from a local.
  • Polls – Simple polls that gather interesting information.
  • Discounts and special offers – People and companies send out both.

Twitterbird_4 So what happened with me?

I followed people, wrote updates, joined conversations, offered sports scores and website-related advice, asked for technology help and sought out talented people to help serve the needs of my clients. It was especially fun when I later met Twitter friends in real life. Now the Following and Followers numbers on my account are approaching 1,000.

What most people seem to be interested in is how money was made through Twitter. It began by sending a helpful update that was well received.

Shannon sent an update that said, "Hey, check out this website I just designed." I did and then sent along a few suggestions for improvement. Shannon said he really appreciated these suggestions. Keep in mind that his update was not directed at me and I didn't know him then. It simply went zipping by at a time when I was "on Twitter."

In fact, he asked me to be an advisor on his next project. I agreed and he was so pleased that he paid me 50% more than he had originally offered. He subsequently went so far as to write an unsolicited blog post recommending my services. Wow, all this born out of 140 characters.

As the conversation expands, it is not out of the ordinary for it to move from Twitter to email, IM, telephone and in-person meetings.

Initially Twitter did seem like it was for the birds. I understood Twitter no more than I can understand the birds outside my window right now. Friendly folk on Twitter and in real life showed me otherwise.

I hope that you will also learn that Twitter is not for the birds, but a valuable tool for your business and social tool box. Come join the conversation! I promise to reply.

Jim Spencer
"Fairminder" on Twitter

August 19, 2008

Oprah on the Law of Attraction

Oprah uses a personal example in this video to get across how the Law of Attraction works. Watch this short, just over 3 minute clip taken from an interview she did with Larry King about The Secret. Then tell me what you think. Does Oprah know her Inner Samurai, or what?

August 18, 2008

Interview with Accidental Pren-her Lisa Otto

Podcast1_2 Today's special guest on The Accidental Pren-her Show, Stories of the Unexpected is Accidental Pren-her Lisa Otto of Creative Writing Studios.   

In this quick-fire, 12-minute interview learn where the idea for Creative Writing Studios came from:

Well, I was a full-time eBay seller and I had been for six years. One day, a group of eBay friends of mine and I were talking online, and a couple of the gals were interested in moving away from eBay and starting their own websites, but they didn’t really know what to say on their websites. So they were kind of hitting me up to help with words, since they knew I was a writer. I ended up writing copy for about five websites in the first couple months, and I thought, “Oh, this is perfect!”

And her advice for women starting up their business:

Otto_lisa

    First and foremost, don’t be so scared by the thought of doing it that you just don’t do it. Just take the steps that you need to investigate a little further. And base it on something that you’re passionate about.

    Second, don’t give up before you’ve started. So many women will jump into a new business and they’ll give it six months or a year, and then they’ll want to quit because maybe it’s not quite where they want to be. But just keep forging ahead. Don’t give up early.

Podcast1_3Download her interview and listen to it from your computer or ipod.

Read the transcript.

Enjoy!

Frontcover162x250_2Susan L. Reid
The original Accidental Pren-her™

Author of Discovering Your Inner Samurai: The Entrepreneurial Woman's Journey to Business Success

August 14, 2008

Are You a Fan of Debbie Ford?

Whygoodpeopledobadthings I am.

She is fearless when it comes to living an authentic life, and relentless in her call to examine our shadow side . . . That part of us that we keep hidden from ourselves.

I just finished reading her new book, Why Good People Do Bad Things. If you've ever taken her Shadow Workshop, then you will easily connect to the content of this book. If you haven't then the insight she gives into the heart of the duality that unknowingly operates within each one of us will be enlightening.

Why do good people do bad things? Why is there so much self-sabotaging going on? Here's what Debbie has to say:

Acts of self-sabotage are predictable. They arise from the repression of what I call our 'dark side,' the parts of ourselves and our lives that we find too inconvenient to admit; too embarrassing to accept. Regardless of how intently we try to hide, deny, or suppress them, every aspect of ourselves that we've deemed unacceptable or wrong will eventually make itself known - sometimes when we least expect it. When we are busy building a business, creating a family, or working hard to achieve some long-desired goal, these rejected or unwanted aspects of ourselves can pop up and destroy our lives, our reputations, and all of our hard work. This is what I call the Beach Ball Effect.

In her book, she goes into great detail about the Beach Ball Effect - the way our suppressed emotions eventually arise to the surface, revealing the origins of our self-destructive behavior. 

This is a wonderfully insightful book for women to read. If you are an Accidental Pren-her or entrepreneurial business woman, this book is a must read. Ford's descriptions of the masks we wear to protect ourselves will give you insight into why you do the things you do, but also insights into the workings of other people. 

If you've read Why Good People Do Bad Things let us know. Did you like it? Not so much? Find it useful?

Frontcover162x250_2Susan L. Reid
The original Accidental Pren-her™
Award-winning author of Discovering Your Inner Samurai: The Entrepreneurial Woman's Journey to Business Success

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